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Imagine. 20 years from now. Half of your son’s friends are intact. They share with him the joys of owning a foreskin.
What will you say?
...When he wonders what it would feel like to masturbate or have intercourse without the need for artificial lubricants, to feel his natural, nerve-dense foreskin gliding smoothly over his glans.
...When he ponders the enjoyment he and his wife are missing out on and how love-making could be different for them both.
...When he longs to utilize his foreskin with his male partner but cannot since long ago, without his consent, it become a component of a women’s face cream.
...When he confronts feelings of violation, anger, and frustration every time he sees his
scarred, reduced penis.
...When he decides to undergo a multi-year process to restore SOME of what was taken from him at birth.
...When he asks you why you sealed his sexual fate with your own inexperience and ignorance.
...When he asks why you didn’t think he should have the right to choose over his own body, especially his most private area.
What will you say?
Unlike our parents, this generation does not lack the resources to make an educated decision. There are no excuses for the parents of today who blatantly turn their backs on reason.
What will you say?
Will you lie to him and tell him that you did not know any better?
Will you violate him further by telling him that his feelings are foolish?
Will you lie and say that you thought it was medically necessary even though no medical association in the entire world recommends it?
Will you tell him that you thought he would not have the self-confidence to take pride in his WHOLE body?
Will you tell him that you thought he would not be able to “clean” himself?
Will you blame Daddy for making the poor decision?
Will you tell him that you thought that he and Daddy should have matching scars?
Will you blame your doctor for coercing you in order to fill his pocketbook?
Will you pretend like no one tried to tell you the truth, to educate you?
Will you finally admit that you were wrong and feel remorse for what you have done?
I want to know, what will you say? |
